Why? Family is creating system-robots programmed to ‘survive’ – wherein Survival is defined as: “Serve the System and the System will serve you. Obey”.
Family will teach the Child all about 'love' = a Reward-System based-in Polarity according to what the parents have-come to believe is 'good' and 'bad', 'right' and 'wrong';
In the name of 'love' - Family will teach the Child to compromise its authentic expression in order to be 'loved' and 'accepted'.
In the name of 'love' - Family will teach the Child how to be 'better' than others or at-least how to try and be 'better' than others, using comparison and competition, based in the Family's own comparison and competition with and Jealousy towards other Families.
Established within the Family, 'love' will stand as the Polarity of Punishment, expressed/applied more (physical and verbal violence, abuse) or less (withdrawal, lack of 'love', restrictions etc.), according to the parents' own suppressions.
Family will teach the Child how to stand as Ego - in Separation;
will teach the Child how to 'defend' what is 'his'/'hers' and 'fight for its rights' using its elbows;
Family will teach the Child how to think, what to think, what to believe - and will pass-on to the Child their 'secret' fears, desires, denials;
Family will teach the Child how to 'feel', what to 'feel' and how to respond to particular situation with particular reactions;
Family will teach the Child how to manipulate to 'get what it wants', just like the parents manipulate the Child to get it to do/be what they want;
Family will teach the Child how to create cults and 'make friends' - how to lie and how to always-say what people 'want to hear';
will teach the Child 'who he/she is' -according to their own perceptions, their fears and desires, their own unfulfilled dreams...
Family will teach the Child of 'pride' - a 'pride' 'too hard to swallow' - a 'pride' fed with jealousy and spitefulness - molded into a jellyfish-like Mind without substance - still: always 'ready to kill' in the name of 'love' - 'an eye for an eye'.
...And so the same-old Fears and the same-old Limitations are passed-on from generation to generation, accepted and allowed, and nothing ever change…
Nothing Will ever change - if WE don’t Stop the Cycles of Abuse - if WE don’t break-down the veils that’s been placed before the I – and Stop the ‘I to I’ that apparently make us HU-man - to finally See: I in All as Equal as Life.