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Sunday, March 11, 2012

[2012] Is LOVE something you can TOUCH

Love in this world has been defined through the consumerism consciousness of self-interest (see the documentary The Century of Self for an extensive background on the development of ‘modern civilization’ as we know it today), and definitions of love has been impulsed onto us through the different media in an idealizing manner, resulting into various consequences in terms of what we think of love, how we struggle to experience love, and what illusions we tend to create as ‘love’ in our attempt to deny the physical actuality of ourselves and this existences, our attempt to suppress the ‘negative’, the suffering, the ‘dark side’ of ourselves and this world, our attempt to avoid taking responsibility for life.


We have become ‘happiness machines’ and ‘love’ has become the drug which we use to either seek the bliss of enlightened self-interest or to become comfortably numb.

So – love has become an idea, a concept, an illusion of grandeur and profoundness, when in fact our practical physical living in this world gives no evidence of love, no evidence of a loving reality within ourselves and our world, this existence.


How can love exist in a world where separation, self-interest, war, conflict, rape, starvation, exploitation prevail?
We fight in the name of love, we hate in the name of love, we kill in the name of love.


How have we missed to make love practical?

What are the mental projections and concepts of ‘love’ that we’ve deluded ourselves with – to such an extent that we’ve lost all practical connection to reality as ourselves and this world?
We can see definitions of love in all fields of our consumer consciousness field: media, movies, money-system, education, religion, spirituality...

You will also note that those that are possessed by ‘love’ will refuse to consider anything else but that love is the answer -- and there will be no practical way they can explain how love will change the world and regardless of this obvious oversight, their egos will spew one word like magic poison: ‘love will heal the world’ -- they should watch the news to see that the only love on the Telly is the love the corporations are promoting as love for their products. [1]




How do we redefine LOVE to be a living word that will in fact change the experience of ourselves as humanity, as a whole, as existence?

Love is: to not give up on yourself or others/existence - but to be willing to stand no matter what, to not accept or allow anything less than what's best for all; and be willing to take the risks/actions necessary to get this done. [2]







When we look at the practical-living of love, it is not in the words “I love you”, it is not within one person making another person feel ‘special’ or ‘wanted’ or ‘desired’, it is not the stroking of your ego, it is not accepting each-other the way we are because that would imply that love is a lock-down of personalities so that they never change as they have found the point that accept ‘just the way they are’ and therefore they will not expand, they will not grow, they will not consider anything else since the ego/personality is ‘satisfied’. That is not love.

Love is NOT an experience - it is a living reality you participate in with another being and existence as a whole. [3]




Looking at love in the context of relationships we can see that the point of love has been extremely sexualized in all aspects. One cannot possibly ‘have’/’get’ love without participating in comparison, competition, jealousy. Further, obsession, possessiveness and fear of loss play a role in ‘keeping’ the love one ‘has’. Seduction, manipulation, deception are further phenomena in the context of ‘love’ in this world.

We sell ourselves for love in all possible ways. Love becomes the context where we compromise ourselves just to ‘have’ that little bit of attention and acceptance that we mostly don’t give to ourselves. Within that, touch has become a tool of hidden messages and manipulation, as beings do not actually get to know each-other and self beyond the boundaries of the personality traits we present ourselves as; we do not learn to actually communicate, support and assist self and each-other to express, expand, flourish.

Can you allow yourself to be touched by another without it becoming immediately a sexual projection?

Why can people not touch each other in support to just convey ‘I am here with you’ = in the touch? [4]




How do we redefine TOUCH to be a living word that will in fact change the experience of ourselves as living beings, and through that change the experience of our whole existence?

Touch as the living word is how a mother and father will hold and touch a new born baby or how you would hold a puppy when you bring it home... [5]

Touch as the connection/embracing of a physical-manifestation/ body for a moment sharing the contact of being here together with each other [6]




Photography by Marlen

Touch is the evidence of I am Here.

But what am I here as?
Our touch has been throughout our lives coloured with all kinds of symbols, depending on what we have gone through and experienced, the relationships we’ve had and the ones we’ve witnessed. It’s like we’ve lost touch with our own touch, our own physical, our own presence, as our presence has been and is being defined through the consciousness of our conditioned mind – the mind that exists in polarities of fear and desire, thus: we never express directly, but through patterns of the mind.
The same with Touch.

It is a challenge for all human beings to let go of the conditioned existence we have accepted as who we are and get back to self, to the simplicity of I am Here, to the purity of touch – Touch without hidden agendas, without future projections, without the need to control the outcome, without the expectation to get something out of it.

Simplicity in the direct communication as I am here – the straightforwardness of pure touch can be the greatest comfort in this world ...and perhaps a way to change it!


Give up sainthood, renounce wisdom,
And it will be a hundred times better for everyone.

Give up kindness, renounce morality,
And men will rediscover filial piety and love.

Give up ingenuity, renounce profit,
And bandits and thieves will disappear.

These three are outward forms alone; they are not sufficient in themselves.
It is more important
To see the simplicity,
To realize one's true nature,
To cast off selfishness
And temper desire.

-         - Lao Tzu


At Desteni we walk the process of transforming the conditioned existence of ourselves into self-directive living through self-will in self-honesty – to no longer be puppets on the strings of the mind, but to stand equal to and one with the entirety of self and take responsibility for who we are in every moment, with every word, thought and deed, in everything we participate in and everything we touch.

Let's make Love something we can Touch
something all can see, live and practically experience as the fabric of our existence in all possible ways!



[1] [3] [4] [5] Bernard Poolman
[7] Lao Tzu: Tao Te Ching

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Friday, February 24, 2012

2012 Reasons for a Higher Purpose

Ever considered that you’re doing the ‘right’ thing for the WRONG reasons ???
Ever claimed you’re doing something for NO reason ???
Ever dared doing the ‘wrong’ thing for the RIGHT reasons ???
Ever realized that you’re reasoning away the actuality of reality ???



What is REASON?
Our reasons are always representing our starting-point, the beginning of a decision, a movement, a step we take.
Therefore, there is always a reason for doing something or moving toward a certain direction, even if that reason may not be in one’s conscious awareness.

Since the REASON is always the beginning, this implies that seeing, knowing and understanding the reason – the beginning, the starting-point – we are able to see and understand the end – the result, the outflow.
‘Beginning and end’ is equal to ‘cause and effect’.
What effect do we cause through who we are in every moment?
This is a reality of consequence.
Consequences are the outflows of who we are, the result we effect through the cause of our being.

Everything in this existence exists within and through relationships. Everything we do, every step has an outflow, a result, an impact – on the whole. That is how we are creating this reality, this existence, this world as we know it.
The abuser does not exist by itself – everything exists in relationships, and for that we are all responsible.
The system (as we’ve created/accepted/allowed it) creates the abuser: through the support of self-interest, competition and secrecy – constantly re-creating inequality, comparison, greed, despair. Who are the real criminals in the face of life? The one who steals food to survive or the white collar that works to maintain a system of separation in the name of profit?



The earth provides everything all, but man created a concept ‘scarcity’ and exploits what is here in the name of profit – all the while billions suffer.
The current system offers many distractions, resulting in the shifting of responsibility and blame. Such comments prove how easily people get distracted by ‘sensationalism’ and do not see the whole picture. Then one will quickly jump into conclusions about who is to blame, all the while one is accepting and giving permission for the system to exist as it does = in a way that supports/tolerates inequality and the exploitation of life.



Many people search for PURPOSE in life, and the current con system of consumerism and consumption is good at selling us a purpose you can buy into and follow, a purpose that will give us the feeling we’re ‘doing the right thing’ or ‘getting somewhere’, a feeling that we’re ‘important’, that we are ‘someone’, that we are ‘good’; all the while we are basically maintaining the world ‘as we know it’ and supporting the survival of a persona in self-interest – which is basically the system: where what we do is motivated by self-interest in the name of profit (whether profit is defined as actual money and riches or a ‘god’ and god’s grace or the ‘pursuit of happiness’ and ‘personal freedom’ – in any case we are in fact always enslaved to the whole system, and half the world suffers starvation and despair as a result of this survival system we all participate in day in day out.

When people make decisions about who they are and how they exist – whether consciously or unconsciously – they then tend to create the reasoning that ‘explains’ ‘why’ they do what they do, ‘why’ they are how they are. People reason about intellectually, in the mind, to not have to see the actual REASONS for this existence – the world as we know it – in the physical: this reality we all share.

When we however start investigating our actual reasons, the actual starting-point of everything we do, say, think, participate in and how this reality functions: we get to an understanding of ourselves and the world and what the relationships we entertain support or create or give permission for to exist here.

Every moment, every word, every deed – who we are and what we participate in – is a piece of the puzzle of the things to come. The problem within this is that we’ve been manifesting this world in ignorance, and then we claim that ignorance is ‘bliss’. We’ve been creating this world in unawareness, through our secret minds, our fears, our denials, our desires.

As a representation of the mind within, we have created without a metaphysical system – the current money system – through which we attempt to manage the actual physical reality; with atrocious results as we can see all around.



As we get to an understanding about the mechanics of this reality, and as we get to self-honesty about the REASONS of our existence, our behaviour, our decisions, our definitions of ourselves and the world: what emerges is the realization that we can free ourselves from the predetermined ‘fate’ we are born into and able to determine our ‘reasons’ in awareness; clear our starting-point, re-evaluate how we exist – re-define and re-form what we call ‘life’.

As we realize that every here moment forms the shape of the things to come, we can see that we can stop existing for purposes given to us by the system to keep the system alive while we abdicate our power and leave ourselves and this world to ‘fate’; and are able to LIVE HERE in every moment in awareness of our role in the context of the whole, which is LIFE.

What ‘Purpose’ is can be redefined: from a projected ‘feel good’-picture that serves the ego in disregard of the whole – to a practical living in self-determination of ‘who I am’ in every moment in the context of LIFE as Best for All, thus supporting and bringing forth the utmost potential for all life.

It is vital to UNDERSTAND life – and start LIVING ...instead of being literally driven by preordained and conditioned ideas about life.



Is there at all a RIGHT reason for ‘doing things’?
Looking at this question from a system perspective we see that ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ really doesn’t make much difference in the system, because what is ‘right’ for one is often ‘wrong’ for another, and within the system each one is encouraged to promote their ‘own’ beliefs, their ‘own’ truth, their ‘own’ philosophy about things. What is not seen is that in any case all of this serves the protection of one’s personal ‘pursuit of happiness’ and the ‘justification’ of the things we do in the name of self-interest.

Never is the Whole considered, never do we see all points or consider the outflows, the consequences and the practical implications our participation has for everything and everyone else – for that which we call ‘life’, for the existence we are creating /accepting /allowing on our planet.
Looking in self-honesty at this world, which is a reflection of who we are, we can definitely see that what we’re doing /accepting /allowing cannot be justified!

We, humanity, have no excuses for what we’re doing to ourselves and each-other.



From the perspective of life, there is no ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ – there is only ‘who we are’ and the consequences thereof.

As we come to an understanding of the ‘bigger picture’, as we get to the humbleness that comes with the insight of the atrocity of this existence and our individual involvement within it all, we can look at the point of ‘right reasons’ and ‘wrong reasons’ from a very simplistic, practical perspective, through which we are actually able to remove the systematic polarity definition of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and place the question in the context of LIFE:

Within the context of life, ‘wrong’ would be all that which is an expression of self-dishonesty.
Self-dishonesty being our self-interest, our separation from life that based in the consciousness of fear and greed, comparison, jealousy, competition, fear of loss. In self-dishonesty we realize ourselves as systematic robots that function as conditioned happiness machines programmed to seek the jackpot whatever it takes while we are successfully distracted with bright shiny things to not see the whole picture and the role each one is actually playing within the Whole; to not see ourselves as creators and this existence as our creation – our responsibility.

Within the context of life, ‘right’ would be that which is an expression of self-honesty.
Self-honesty being the point where we see things for what they really are and face ourselves and everything we have created /accepted /allowed /given permission for to exist within ourselves and our world; realizing ourselves as life, as equal creations of the substance we all come from, the substance we all return to, and as creators of this existence on this one planet we all share. It is simple common sense that Best for All would be to live and apply our equality as life in the utmost potential and make it available to all equally in all ways; making sure that the systems we create to manage our ‘time’ between life and death – both on the small scale (our character, our relationships, our interactions in every moment) and on the bigger scale (our systems of education, administration, distribution of resources) – support ALL LIFE EQUALLY.

SELF-HONESTY is the ‘path’ – the Living Self Choice – of stopping the limitations we have accepted and allowed within and about ourselves and our world; removing the systematic controls that have us trapped in a bipolar consciousness that keeps history repeating; transforming the equations of inequality and enslavement into common sense solutions of dignity and self-empowerment in equality – so that we may be able to re-create ourselves and our existence, this world, in a way that support ourselves and each-other as LIFE.

Friday, February 10, 2012

2012 EXCLUSIVE: The Untold History of ATLANTIS and Why it should Be No SECRET

What is it about the story of ATLANTIS
Is there a Secret that has been kept from us? Or has everything always been right in front of our 'I' ...?

Hear this free exclusive 1-hour interview by the Atlanteans from Atlantis unveiling the history of Atlantis beyond the myths that exist today:


Find the next episodes with more than 10 hours of recorded material at eqafe

My review: FASCINATING!
Why?

The basic point or essence I gathered thus far through all the interviews through the interdimensional portal is that the current enslavement has only been possible through the acceptance of the enslaved - through the abdication of responsibility; and perhaps it was in fact about missing a moment, a moment which could have been directed in full presence to what was best for all, as the Atlanteans have always done and applied as who they are (working with sound on a planet of sound and in awareness of the harmony of and as existence, as the being in this interview shares).
The being also shares about the purpose they were realizing within and through their existence, namely to maintain the harmony and equilibrium of existence as a whole, realizing and experiencing as themselves the common source as substance of all of existence as one, despite there having existed different planets with different races from the perspective of form, manifestation, skills and abilities. There existed a connection within and among the whole of existence in its different manifestations, all on some level aware of the common sense, the common origin, the substance from which everything and everyone emerged and existed as. Within that oneness there was equality.

So when and how did the separation begin?
This must’ve been the point where self-interest emerged and perhaps the question is why there was an acceptance/permission given for this to exist. If we as humans are the result of/as the enslaved Atlanteans, then surely it is time to acknowledge that our suffering derives from the fact that we’ve literally lost our common sense and missed a  moment of self-honest directive.

Could this be ‘the missing link’?

It could certainly be the time to stop blaming ‘god’ or ‘reptilians’ or ‘the system’ for our enslavement and ask ourselves the question: where are we missing the point? Where are we missing ourselves? Where did we go wrong? Where did we miss a moment of self-honest directive in the sense of the substance that we had realized as our common source , the origin of all as what we all had emerged from and existed as – the common sense that is best for all.

When did we stop BEING the source?
And how do we become the source – become who we really are when we are free.




The problem I see with the current consciousness as it has ‘evolved’, is that it is based in mental, projected and separated dimensions, separation being the key word here.

The human exists in separation from everything and even from itself. It then spends a lifetime developing ‘mechanisms’ and ‘approaches’ trying to ‘connect’, but it does that within separation, within seclusion, as if the world, as if life, was ‘out there’ somewhere, but not ‘here’. (The accepted system obviously re-creates a human that is set on survival-mode, and that is one of the main points we are able, if willing, to change within our current global reality – see EqualMoney.org)

The human separates itself into subconscious and unconscious dimensions and projects its consciousness both inward (suppression, denial, ‘powerlessness’, questions) as well as outward (the seeking of fulfilment/’power’, the yearning for ‘god’/‘salvation’, answers). The separated parts of self often seem to ‘individualize’ and give a certain feedback, either in dreams and nightmares or in conscious emotional/mental possessions and obsessions, moods and outbursts that come seemingly ‘out of nowhere’.

The human attempts to understand itself and existence through mental/conscious investigation: through the interpretation of the subconscious and unconscious dimensions, which however inevitably takes place within the bounds and through the filters of the conscious mind. Thus the human fails to get to oneness and equality within and as itself and with life. This then results to the human attempting to validate and/or justify its existence and seek ‘life’ through projected ‘spiritual’ theories in the quest for meaning/purpose/’value’/’power’.
All this within a perceptual reality of separation, hence also the hierarchical tendencies of the essence of control.



The fascinating consideration this point leads to is:

For a perceived ‘need’ for (or even the concept of) ‘control’ to exist, the essence of ‘control’ must have existed. For the essence of the need for CONTROL to exist, FEAR must have existed. Is this the question about which was first – the chicken or the egg? Maybe, maybe not.

It certainly is a question each and every single being is able to practically explore and investigate as to the implications for existence – cause and effect, time and space, in the context of the harmony and the freedom of existence /the world /humanity as a whole.

It is also a question to investigate as to the implications of one’s individual, personal existence and self-experience. How is fear and control existent within me? What are the interplays? What are the patterns? What are the mental thought constructs through which I try to reason with such points? What am I participating in? What am I accepting and allowing?

Does the existence of fear imply the concepts of ‘inferiority’ - ‘superiority’? Does the existence of the concept of control imply the acceptance of the same concept: ‘inferiority’ – ‘superiority’? Has our mind consciousness perhaps in its evolution come up with ways to ‘justify’ the separation, to ‘justify’ (as in ‘protect’) its perceived ‘uniqueness’ against the rest of existence? Has our mind consciousness perhaps in its evolution come up with ways to ‘justify’ this existence of control and enslavement because only so ‘it’ can continue existing as it does – ‘explaining’ its fear as ‘real’, as ‘necessary’, as ‘justified’? Has our mind consciousness perhaps ‘individualized’ itself in separation from the entirety of who we really are as life, given itself fake values based on concepts of ‘power’ and ‘grandeur’ and is now driving us to each our individual ‘desires’, ‘free choice’, bliss’ in pretended or dumbed-down ignorance?

A simple question opens the door to some interesting answers:

Does our individual mind consciousness place itself before what is best for all? Yes.
Does our individual mind consciousness drive us through patterns of emotional and mental reactions to the decisions we make in our reality? Yes.
Does our individual mind consciousness bring up fear that we seem to be unable to control, direct, overcome? Yes.
So – is the enemy perhaps within?!
ENE-ME : INNER-ME

How did we get here? How did we get to exist in the Here we have manifested as Humanity in this space and time continuum?

This whole issue with us – with ourselves individually and humanity as a whole – demands an existential approach to reality to be resolved.

An existential approach would be a holistic approach that would require the transcendence of separation, within and without.



That is what we are busy with at Desteni; that is what we come together for. We each stand alone, as each one has to stand-up for oneself – no one can do it for another; yet we walk together, we work together, we see ourselves and each-other as equals of life and explore ways of living that equality, ways of making it a living-reality for all existence.

We realize it is ourselves and our relationships in our world that we require to change, the mechanics of co-existence in its practicality. We realize we have to dignify our word as the living word and become someone that can be trusted, someone that trust themselves, someone whose word is sound. We realize that this is established through self-honesty and the practical walking of self-forgiveness and self-correction / self-actualization, to no longer be simply products of our environment (an environment/system that has for eons of time propagated isms and schisms and supported an existence of separation, fear and control) but self-willed equals of life, living our inheritance to what is best for all in every moment.


This is how the Atlanteans went about with what they understood as their inheritance, their origin, their existence. They saw themselves as the Guardians of existence. And that is how I see myself as Destonian today, as that is what Desteni stands for: the Oneness and Equality of Life in all practical ways of our co-existence.

Today we can at least utilize the evolution of consciousness and the realizations that the inversion of karma and the acceleration of time – the lifting of the veils – bring: to be/become the guardians of life. Because life is the value that has been exploited, disregarded, degraded in the name of gods and profits.

The value of life is life – and that is the highest value in actuality, common in all and everything that is here breathing the same air. How can we keep competing against each-other and define ourselves by our differences?!



Why was the history of Atlantis kept secret? Well, one thing is certain: there hadn’t been an actual ‘opening’ for the actual story to come through.

For some it may be worth investigating all the myths humanity has about Atlantis – written and told by human beings. Also investigate all religious books – they too were written by human beings. How were the messages misformed, misinterpreted? What were people mis-informed about? What may have been the purpose of the Myths, the books? What were they promising, how have they been impulsing humanity, how were they ‘educating’? How come religious and spiritual leaders are rich and powerful in this world system?

For the first time, another kind of sharing is possible. I'd suggest to everyone to hear the story of Atlantis as one may find something about oneself and one's world view that one hasn't yet considered. Investigate the Thousands of interviews and Tens of Thousands of Articles and Documents through the portal, made public by the Desteni group through the internet since 2007.




When I first came across Desteni it was through Youtube and the online forums.
What made an immediate and strong impression on me the moment I came across Desteni was that each and every point taken on, presented, given perspective on: would always be brought to a concluding point showing the necessity and inevitability of SELF-RESPONSIBILITY. That is the core message of Desteni: Stop waiting, stop hoping, and take life in your hands by standing-up for self, for life. Stand up and Stop the enslavement within and without. 
Obviously, to do that, we first require to understand How we are enslaved, How we are in fact keeping ourselves and each-other enslaved in patterns of consciousness that perpetuate the ‘world as we know it’ and keep history repeating; never actually evolving but only mutating, while the power-structures and inequality within and of the world system are being maintained.

On Youtube I found countless Desteni interviews elaborating on various different points of our existence and showing how everything exists trapped within and as polarity designs. I was immediately able to see this design and how it in fact exists within everything that we do, participate in or know about in this world.
The systems of our world are set to create and perpetuate enslavement through the mental and emotional manipulation of the individual and at the same time through binding the individual to societal structures of inequality, thus creating also dependency and bipolar behaviors and experiences, as there always seems to be something to love and something to hate, something to fear and something to desire, something to fight for and something to fight against. And while we engage in these patterns the world system presents us with as ‘options’ in life, we never actually stand in complete oneness and equality with all that exists so that we may be able to realize and take absolute self-responsibility for this existence that is ourselves.

This is the main point in my process of self-realization that literally woke me up and assisted me in realizing that as long as I project blame and responsibility onto others or anything outside of myself for that matter, I am in fact abdicating my power, abdicating my response-ability, my ability in other words to actually make a difference and bring forth actual change – the change I want to see in the world.
Therefore it is through changing/directing self as who I am in every moment, realizing and taking responsibility for what I accept and allow through my participation, my presence, my actions or inaction, that I am able to start having an impact on my personal relationships in my reality, my world; thus slowly but surely start creating relationships in self-honesty, self-responsibility, mutual respect and intimate and direct  communication, making life something that is of life-support universally, something that is dignified and worth creating, worth living.

What I found through my participation with Desteni was people sharing themselves and their processes, and challenging themselves and each-other – challenging beliefs and personalities and mind sets as revealed through the writings we all shared. This is and has been an organic process of cross-referencing, debunking and discussing of all possible points of our existence, experience and ‘knowledge’ of the world, our reality, in the quest for the actual truth behind the veils of the mind’s programming and beyond the belief-systems we are indoctrinated with through the world systems.
Understanding and removing mind-control from the inside-out through self-honesty and practical common sense, seeing things for what they are in the context of the whole of existence from a perspective of cause and effect: allows us to see the manifested consequence of our existence and take self-responsibility.

Within this, we are able to start investigating the cause and effect of our own individual existence: 
What does my existence contribute to within and of this world? What do my acceptances and allowances give permission for to exist in the bigger picture? What am I supporting in the world when I am driven by fears and desires? What creates my fears and desires? What is the effect of my cause? What has been my ‘role’ in my relationships with my reality thus far, and what definitions have I accepted within this to merely ‘justify’ the ‘roles’ and ‘positions’ I have taken? Why have I been for instance ‘the victim’, or ‘the intellectual’, or ‘the seeker’, or ‘the bully’ or ‘the bullied’? And how did I then create beliefs and interpretations of ‘reality’ in self-righteousness and abdication of responsibility?

How are such ‘roles’ used and abused within the world system to maintain consumerism, consumption and the con of consciousness, within which all and every one is enslaved? What ‘role models’ are we presented with by the media and why? What drives our existence from the inside-out and how are such ‘driving forces’ created? And why?
At Desteni we see SELF in the context of the entirety of existence. How can we create a world without ‘gods’ and fake values – a world with no masters and no slaves? How can we bring forth an existence of self-willed equals, where power is no longer something to compete for, fight for, kill and die for. How can we self-realize power as life, and give it to ourselves and everyone else equally.
Understanding ourselves as creators of ourselves and collectively of this world – we begin to understand creation from the perspective of interconnectedness and interdependence as life.
No one is free until all life is free!

This point is a further crucial point at Desteni – a point that opened my eyes for the world and assisted me in understanding self-responsibility and practical equality and oneness.
Because this world system, this manifested existence that is our reality, is one of enslavement, we all tend to seek ‘freedom’, or ways to escape the ‘prison’ of the system. And the only way we ‘know’ how to do this, is through denial, suppression, separation, whereby we tend to disregard everything and everyone else in the quest for personal freedom.

What if, however, we look at self-freedom not from a perspective of self-interest, but instead from the perspective of life – as all as one as equal. What if we start realizing self-freedom from the inside-out, by debunking and diffusing the mental and emotional mind-control we have been subjected to and have accepted as ‘who we are’, and consequently start freeing our personal relationships and interactions from the consciousness patterns of control and manipulation; from the constant competition and power-games – to create freedom of life, for life, for all. Because how can anyone be really free within an existence of enslavement where one constantly has to watch one’s back, an existence where no trust, no support, no actual freedom of expression and expansion exists?
Within realizing self-freedom in the context of life, as life, we are able to embrace our interdependence within and as this reality we all share, and realize that our interdependence is rooted in and emerges from our INTERCONNECTEDNESS as life.

Therefore, interdependence in the context of life does not mean dependency as in the currently existent relationships of master-slave, strong-weak, superior-inferior, powerful-powerless. Such bipolar relation-patterns exist only in systems of inequality where ‘power’ is defined in separation of life and ‘justified’ through fear and concepts of scarcity. Such polarity constructs as we’ve accepted them to exist within and as ourselves, within and as this existence, is exactly what creates dependency. And the outflows of such dependency are seen in war, conflict, addictions, obsessions.
No – Interdependence as life actually implies equality and oneness and the acknowledgement of our interconnectedness as equal parts of LIFE. 
Freedom must be Freedom for All Life!

Within this, life can become One again: whole, integral, free. This oneness and equality, this freedom as life – the freedom to live, express and expand in full awareness and regard of all that is here as life – this must begin with/within each One individually: within how one lives and participates in every moment and how one relates and interacts in the context of one’s relationships.

This brings us back to the point of SELF-RESPONSIBILITY which seems to be the key in our process of self-realization as life.

STAND-UP for LIFE. YOU are the one you've been missing, YOU are the one you've been waiting for. So Stop waiting. Make a Stand.



Saturday, January 21, 2012

2012 DNA Activation - Sensational Promises for Delusional Minds







While many new age 'schools' and gurus promise full DNA activation, has anyone wondered what full DNA activation would practically imply?
People literally 'look forward' to things like that in the hope and desire that they'll bring them salvation and power, but within that they never consider the points of consequence and responsibility.

And while DNA activation is sold like a 'miraculous' savior pill, imagine this rather rational perspective:
Full DNA activation as in full awareness of all genetic information of all forefathers, their issues, their challenges, their points to be transcended. Full DNA activation as in bringing all subconscious and unconscious mind layers of self to the conscious presence here equal and one, to be faced, dealt with, directed.

Are you ready?


Responsibility is Key to Self-Empowerment - Power as Life. 


Stop the delusional mind ideas of power that we are brainwashed with, Stop buying into sensationalism and believing in promises, and discover actual self power as life within equality and oneness in this physical universe HERE.



Watch my Vlog on DNA Activation, Self Delusion and How we are blinded by the 'Light':




Watch out for the Freedom Blogs released by people standing-up all over the world; people waking up to the actuality of reality; people peeling off the veils of illusion that has been keeping us preoccupied, consumed, possessed, entrapped within a system of power-games, war, lies; people refusing to continue accepting and allowing an existence of separation, abuse and exploitation; people that are working on THE END of separation, THE END of abuse, THE END of exploitation. 

Check out the freedom movement at desteni.org and equalmoney.org and find the Freedom Blogs and further self-perfection support at the EQAFE:
Freedom Blogs -The birth of Practivism- Volume 1
Freedom Blogs -The Birth of Practivism -Volume 2 
Virus Free Mind
Check out the History of Desteni to see how it all came to be to how walk today as a group that is standing-up for life, as humanity in oneness and equality. 


2012 – Meet the Destonians and read/listen to the revelations, realizations and discussions shared by all of us throughout the various social media platforms.
Get Informed, Get Involved


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of the end of your own personal illusions. Learn how to debunk your own delusions with practical tools of self-support.


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of a new reality for life where WE as LIFE are the directive principle that determines the world we want to live in. 
Let’s get together and create a new reality for humanity collectively and individually – a reality that will support life in all ways, as we start to support ourselves and each-other in dignity and respect.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

2012 Sex Evolution & Sexual Revolution

The world is established and formed through who we are and how we co-exist in our relationships within it. Thus, it is relationships / agreements / partnerships that will build the foundation for a new world.
A new living-reality of relationships must be established through communication, transparency and agreement, to transcend the patterns of dependency, separation, secrecy and manipulation and thus dishonesty and deception, and to transform relationships into agreements of life that support self in learning to live and co-exist in self-honesty and mutual respect. This will purify existence from the inside out and dignify life into a living process of self-exploration, growth and expression.




We can see that Sex plays a major role in the current system, both from the world-perspective in terms of capitalism, consumerism, abuse, exploitation and the consciousness of buy and sell, the consciousness of polarity, of addiction, of abuse; as well as from the perspective of the individual, wherein sex is/has been a point of secrecy, power-games, competition, manipulation, obsession, generally the diminishment and exploitation of life as ourselves due to the fake ‘values’ we adopt and ‘desires’ based on the ‘education’ we are brainwashed with through media, parents, peers/school, pornography – while we’ve lost all self-respect as a species and have difficulty accepting and embracing/supporting ourselves and thus seek for that approval in separation from ourselves.

Our relationships are based on the impressions we’ve gathered throughout our first relationships in life, beginning with our parents. It is vital to free ourselves from patterns and take self-responsibility in transforming the accepted ‘human nature’ into something that is worthy of life on this planet.
Self-acceptance, self-trust, self-honesty, self-respect – these are values that assist in establishing relationships of trust, respect, honesty, transparency and strength.





Sex in this world has become a point that is, in one way or another, an `issue´ for human beings. We can see this in the taboo-nature of Sex, as well as in the secrecy around it.
We seem to have lost our innocence in that regard, and one can ask the question What has become of uncomplicated, direct and transparent physical communication between human beings. Why has Sex become what Sex has become – and what is it exactly that Sex represents and facilitates, apart from the known mating and reproduction functions we are all aware of?

Sex has become a system through which we – consciously or unconsciously – attempt to get validation, approval or `worth´, and equally a system through which we even seek revenge, vengeance or `justice´. We tend to not see these mechanics within ourselves, yet it is clearly seen within society and the depiction of sexual socialization in movies and other arts. We can see this in the evolution of pornography as well as in the human trafficking and sex-slavery that is going in this world, based on and functioning through the very value-system of this existence, of this world consciousness:
a polarity-system manifested as and seen within the current money-system and how it exists within an imposed polarity and a proclaimed scarcity, whereby worth/value is placed in separation from life in accessories of `beauty´, `perfection´, `youth´ and `power´.

Mankind has devalued as life to such an extent, that value is more and more sought-after within external stimuli, external power-sources and accessories of `power´ – because we have completely given up on and abdicated our value as life and each-other´s value as life; otherwise we would not be abusing and exploiting life as ourselves, nor would we be accepting and allowing the current system to continue, which is a system of consumerism, consumption and cons that in the end it consumes us to such an extent that nothing but a weak spark of life remains.

We all are able to see this, as demonstrated, yet we tend to see it in `others´ and `out there´ in the world, and we can spend hours gossiping about these things or moaning and complaining about how the world is turning into an ugly place, without ever looking at how we individually contribute to the existence of the sex-system and all the constructs, industries and markets behind it.

At Desteni we do exactly that, with any and all systems and manifestations or `problems´ of this world. We take the point back to self and have a look at how the `small´ dimension of individual application and participation accumulates into implicit tolerance for the unacceptable – the abuse and exploitation that is happening and is allowed to continue in this world at all levels.



SET LIFE FREE!


Facing reality, facing self – we realize that it is both within and without, both above as below, that the revolution, an actual evolution must happen, and it can only be real and substantial if it is self-willed, self-directed, established through transparency, communication, agreement.

We require a new awareness of/as life that will bring forth a new system based in equality and oneness as the value of life that will slowly but surely transform the money-system/world-system and give every being born into this world the actual opportunity –for all equally – to explore and discover themselves and the planet, the universe.

That is what we are busy with at Desteni and we see that:
on the smaller scale, it is every individual that is undergoing a process of self-realization, which is unfolding either in denial and suppression and thus through rather traumatic events that will wake a person wake-up to reality; or through self-directive participation/application in life within self-honesty and self-responsibility.


Who are we / who am I, individually, within Sex? What are the relationship-constructs that manifest and perpetuate the power-games and mind-delusions which in turn feed the world-system of consumerism and maintain the world as we know it? What are the seemingly small acceptances we compromise ourselves to within everyday-participation, which in turn allow the `show´ to go on and everybody including ourselves to keep their make-up on and pretend that everything is okay?

At Desteni we walk in awareness the process of self-honesty and self-purification/self-perfection in the context of creating a new world in self-responsibility – to end all abuse and stop the deception of energy that is manifested as the money-system of this world based on ‘educated’ ideas of ‘power’ and ‘beauty’. A process of dignifying life as ourselves and establishing a co-existence that is worthy as life.



“What is SEX” is a series that discusses Sex and the manifestation of Sex in a holistic context, giving perspectives from the smaller (the atom, DNA, organs and functions of the human physical body in its multidimensionality) to the bigger (history of the sex system, consciousness and energy, relationships and mind-control, the unified consciousness field, history of mankind and the universe...)

Here is an overview / intro video interview you can watch:


The  “What is SEX”  series:
What is Sex? - Introduction (Part 1-6)
What is Sex - Part 7
What is Sex - Part 8
What is Sex - Part 9
What is Sex - Part 10
What is Sex - Introducing the Relationship-System - Part 11
What is Sex - The Primary and Sub Relationship-Systems of Mind and Sex - Part 12
What is Sex - Relationship Profiling - Part 13
What is Sex - How we create Relationship Profiles - Part 14



There are more series and cool stuff to be discovered at the EQAFE.
Check out the ART by Desteni Artists at http://desteniartists.blogspot.com and Investigate the research, application and solutions shared at http://Desteni.org and http://EqualMoney.org


SET LIFE FREE!

Monday, January 9, 2012

2012 Happiness in Life

There have been throughout the history of mankind many paths to ‘happiness’
yet none of such paths has actually considered that we cannot create happiness through denial and suppression, we cannot create happiness without understanding how we’ve created / contributed to the unhappiness that exists within and without.
Furthermore, such paths to happiness have always been ‘individualized’, without regard or consideration for the happiness of the whole; without considering that no one can ever be truly happy when the rest of the world suffer, struggle, fight, deceive or lie to survive.



At Desteni we are walking a new path of happiness. That includes self-responsibility, self-honesty and the realization that we exist in the context of a whole that we create through our mere existence. Thus our mere existence determines the quality of the whole, which in turn determines the quality of the individual. No one chooses the conditions into which one is born – yet those conditions determine one’s chances and options in life, due to the inequality-system (money-system /world-system) and the accepted exploitation of life on this planet. To change the world we must change the system, to change the system we must change ourselves.

I find that actual happiness comes as self-fulfilment through the small steps of daily self-application, where we start putting our realizations into practical living; where we start committing ourselves to life, to self-support, self-honesty and walk the talk.

We tend to seek ‘happiness’ through the mind, and we tend to ‘find’ stuff that seemingly ‘give’ us something, like ‘hope’ or ‘strength’. We come to many realizations through common-sensical thinking, however realization are irrelevant if they exist merely in the mind.
It’s worth seeing that realizations remain merely ‘feelings’, ‘ideas’, ‘perceptions’, when not practically lived/applied. So the feeling of ‘strength’ for instance is not yet actual strength. We all go through this process of realizing that what we are seeking is in fact ourselves, and that we gotta get on our feet and actually move ourselves, do something, develop ourselves, make decisions, make a stand, determine who we are.

And that is where practical self-directive application comes-in or/and self-correction. Walking this process, I build self-trust as I learn to trust me to live my word / my realizations – committing myself to live self-honesty and to make sure I always have the whole of existence in context, with any consideration, any decision, any application at any given moment.



Making ourselves practical, making ourselves useful – to ourselves to begin with and then consequently to others equally – that is the accumulative ‘effect’ we can ‘cause’ as actual step to happiness; it’s a process that sees self within the context of the whole / Life.
How can we start doing what’s best for all, even in the ‘smallest’ moments of our existence? – that is the question.
Within this process of self-exploration / self-investigation in the context of the Whole, we are walking practical corrective-solutions each to our own ‘individual’ issues and expand this point consequently within how we communicate with ourselves, with each-other, with life – as LIFE.

So in fact this is a mutual re-education and re-evaluation process we are walking as humanity – and there is only One principle, only One value that can guide the way: LIFE itself – which is/will be our equality and oneness, our ‘divinity’, our ‘highest potential’.

Fascinating that the point of equality and oneness is in fact the way –the only way– to actual freedom as creators, as life, as living-potentials.

2012 is The End – but it is also The Beginning.


Friday, January 6, 2012

2012 Forgive & Forget Anonymous

The year 2012 is said by many to be a year of change.
So perhaps the question is: How do we expect change to come forth?

Anonymous claim “We do not forgive. We do not forget.” This is the very nature of consciousness – the very state of mind – that manifests war in this world: by seeking revenge, by directing blame, hate, rage, by thinking in ‘us and them’, by looking for ‘justice’ within separation and power-games. All this is not allowing one to make the effort and really understand the nature of the system and how it came to be; how it continues to exist, what keeps it alive and how we are all responsible.




Here is an extraordinary interview that gives perspective on the nature of the world-system and sheds light onto the ‘how’ of our collective responsibility for What is Here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XSJOkR0YMCE


We are Destonians. We are not anonymous; on the contrary, we stand with our own names and dare to take-on the systems of our world. Because we realize responsibility for all and everything that is here.

Instead of revenge and power-games, rather we should all in fact FORGIVE and FORGET.
Why?
Because there is no way we will sort this world out through revenge, vengeance or the punishment. So much evil has occurred already and what we see is history merely repeating – no one is better than another in this world-system. We are ALL responsible, either through direct participation as cause, or through our acceptances and allowances as the effect of giving permission for things to exist as they do.
Within this whole CHAOS of cultural, religious, racial, political, ideological separation and dogmatism that exists and rules the hearts of men, there is only one way to get past this alive: Forgiveness.

Obviously forgiving others is not the point, since it is the actual tangible change that makes forgiveness real and meaningful. Forgiveness without change is useless. Therefore, each one can in essence only forgive oneself, since only self can change self for real.
Ultimately we will have to forgive each-other if we want to build a new world where we co-exist as life – and that is a point where an equality system will be of tremendous support: Forgiving all debt and establishing a new value-system based on the value of life will equalize everyone in freedom, rights, wealth and opportunities/choice in life. This is a big step that will take time and a certain process – but for now, each one can start forgiving self and changing self in a way that is of dignity and respect to life – to self, as all as one as equal.

When I say Forgive and Forget, it’s not that we ‘forget’ as you might think. But we can let go!
We do not ‘forget’ that which is real as ourselves because it’s Here. Everything is Here. Only that which has not been real – goes. It will either be LET GO of, willingly, in awareness, or it will crumble down in the end, just like the systems of the world currently.
We can Forgive and Forget the separation, the hate, the accepted ‘human nature’, the greed, the fear, the vengeance and blame. We can Forgive and Forget the power-games. We can Forgive and Forget the systems of enslavement that we’ve been allowing to govern, determine, define us – and we can create a system of life for life, taking into consideration every living thing on earth including the planet!



FORGET 2012 –
2012 is not gonna save anything: because every one will have to save themselves.

FORGIVE –
For-Give:  Give For Life.
Stop giving to the mind, the ghosts of the past, the fears and desires of a conditioned existence that is looping into implosion, self-destruction, the end.

Let’s make the end a New Beginning.
Make the decision to Stop.
Within this, we BECOME “the end” – and do not have to literally experience destruction and drive this existence into its doom.

The end is here. We are the end; and we are the Beginning.  Let’s start Here and Now, breathe, birth ourselves into Living, birth ourselves as Life. Let’s have LIFE on this planet, starting with ourselves and expanding into a new system that will restore dignity of life and enable mutual respect, self-expansion and real power as creators –
as Equals of Life.

Power-games of inferiority/superiority have proven to be unworthy and unsupportive for all – We can all agree that as living-beings that breathe on this planet we are equal. We require a CLEAN SLATE as humanity to start over in a new way of LIFE. This clean slate can only be achieved through self-realization, self-forgiveness, self-honesty and respect for life. This starts within each one individually – and collectively we can support every body in the process of self-realization through a new system of actual life-support.




Investigate the solution of equality:
http://desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org
http://eqafe.com


 
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